So over a year ago me and this guy became such good friends, he's a best friend and a brother to me. Well when he and I became friends I had a boyfriend.
Well B the guy that is like a brother to me started flirting, putting his arm around me trying to hold my hand all this and id pull away and say no.

Then he was helping me with my work in class one day because the teacher told him to and he tried holding my hand and he had scratches on his arm. I asked what happened and he and his ex had sex. She played him, but before that happened he had pushed me away and wouldn't talk to me for a couple weeks.

After him and his ex had sex and he found out she played him again and he started talking to me again. Then my boyfriend and I broke up a little while later.
And now this year me and B are still good friends, he says he loves me, I said love how, like bro? He calls me babe, baby, hun, we hang out some, he tries stuff and I still pull away because he knows were just friends but he really wants to be with me.

He kept saying he really wants to kiss me, if he could have just one kiss, I said I don't know, because we've talked about dating but we don't want to fight and that mess up our friendship. So I said no I don't want to date.

Then he started pushing me away, when he started talking to a different ex and he tried getting with her they had sex, got in a fight and he started talking to me again.

I got kind of mad because he tries to get with a girl, who is always an ex, doesn't talk to me, they fight he talks to me. They stop fighting and he talks to me in morning at school but that's it. He said he was sorry for pushing me away he wants me in his life, but then still pushes me away. He's one of my best friends. Then me and my ex started dating. And B is doing the same stuff.

It sounds like he really likes you but is going down a bad path at the moment. He keeps resorting to the past which isn't always a good idea. He may keep going after his ex girlfriends to make you jealous and want him. He may ignore you for the time that he is trying to get with one of is ex's because he is being a stupid butt. Boys can be very confusing and I for one would think that you should either be with him as a girlfriend if you like him enough or you shouldn't be friends with him. If he likes you, you should either like him back or not be friends. If he is already trying to put the moves on you, what happens if he has a really bad day and then pressures you? I would think hard about the way you act around him because you wouldn't want to give him the wrong idea.

I hope this helps. :)

But we both decided it be best not to date because if we broke up over a fight or somehting it could screw up our friendship. But yet he still wants to be with me. And I have a boyfriend now. But now he's not talking to me at all. And he's one of my best friendas and I don't want to lose him as a friend only. Does it seem as if he was using me any?

How old are you guys? Seems you are only friends when he can't get attention he wants from other girls.

16 and 18. Well now the ex he started talking to again well they are kind of dating but then there not thery are kind of like friends with beneifts I guess. And he doesn't talk to me unless they are fighting, and he doesn't come see me in the mornings at school like he used to he sleeps in or runs late now. But before he would never do that just so he could see me.

You sound like a nice young lady, so don't be just one option for a guy who has a few of them.

I don't care if he dates other people that's fine and all I just hate that he ignores me and stuff until he and someone get in a fight. Then a friend of mine and his told me he had a girlfriend but cheated on her.

That's not a good sign when you put up with this kind of behavior because you need the crumbs he gives you. Not healthy for yourself esteem or dignity. Sorry, that borders on desperate. You can do better you know.

I don't like him as a boyfriend, I have a boyfriend. But he is a brother to me and I love him like a brother and he's a best friend. But when we don't talk it bothers me but then I also think its best