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onejustme
Oct 29, 2011, 02:05 PM
I have been in relashionship for about a month and half .everything was going perfect. Last week shetold me to slow it down our relashionship because she have some feeling fro her x-boyfriend. She broke up with him one month before we start dating. She is really nice girl and she told me she likes me ver much but she told me she is confused what she want and she want to stop just the boyfriend girl friend relashionship just friendship with her. I like her and I don't know how I am going to continue from now on. I feel like it is over but she told me she doesn't have intention to go out with some one. She just need space. Please give me your advice to me what to do next. Thanks in advance

pencilantha
Oct 29, 2011, 04:05 PM
Give her what she wants. If she wants space, let her have it. She says she wants to be friends with you, and that is a great sign! Give her a week or so for her to try to puzzle over what she feels for her ex-boyfriend, but then ask her to hang out. Take her to someplace that holds romantic memories for you two, and then do exactly what she loves for you to do. If you can make her fall in love with you all over again, and you will be sure to get back together. ;) Hope this helps!

onejustme
Oct 29, 2011, 04:25 PM
Thanks for your advice, but I am thinking to ignoring her for a few weeks, just not answering her call and text. Then I want to see her how she will feel about me after that. What do you think is this a good idea/

Wondergirl
Oct 29, 2011, 05:25 PM
She is confused because she had just broken up with someone, and you were her rebound boyfriend that kept her from feeling bad about the other guy.

Now she is going to make her ex a rebound boyfriend after being with you. She will become a yo-yo if she continues on this way, back and forth and back and forth.

I would give her total space and not contact her or have anything more to do with her. Never be a boyfriend who is filling in space for a little while.

pencilantha
Oct 29, 2011, 07:09 PM
Well... if you ignore her then she might think you're not interested, and she might try to move on, which you don't want. After a few weeks, it will be even harder to get her back. She will most likely think that her friend has abandoned her, and she won't be happy about that.