So I met this guy in a night club and we made out after talking for hours and got along really well, after we went to his friends house for beer and then he came back to my house for more beer, and we just talked and made out a lot, the whole time telling me he liked me and he wanted to see me again,and took my number.

I didn't see him again for a week, also after a night out in town, and he was holding hands with another girl and going to go home with her, but decided he wanted to walk me home instead. So walking home he was all over me, making out with me and stuff, and I just told him this would be the last time he would walk me home, but he said he didn't want it to be.

So when we got home he told me that if we were to go out he wouldn't make me happy and he couldn't do that to me, I confessed that I couldn't stop thinking about him since that Monday and he said it was the nicest thing a girl ever told him and then made out with me again. But a little bit later I managed to get him to admit that he actually liked another girl. And he's liked her for a while, and he felt awful for what he was doing to me.

So obviously I was upset and I just said he should try it out with her, and I hope it works out for them. He also wants to stay friends because apparently I'm the nicest girl he's ever met and I'm really funny, but I said I didn't think it was possible. I told him he could call over again someday and we'll see if we can just stay friends, but I still really like him, and I don't understand why he acted the way he did, and if he actually does like me or not..

SuriRaya,
Welcome to this beautiful site, first!

Instantaneous outbursts are not to be taken seriously, SuriRaya. If he is really interested in you, he will surely like to seek pardon and open up his heart. All the men do not wear their heart on the sleeve, nor do all the women. But, time is not only a great healer, but also a great tester. It will expose more of him, and will also reveal more of your love for him. Just wait. Analyse what he said, what he says, what he did and what he does. Relax, the solution will not be far.

Keep one thing in mind, if you want to win him, and keep him as your friend, or boyfriend, try to find, what does he like in girls. For instance, does he likes short haired girls, long haired girls, girls with permed hair, trimmed hair or what? Which type of attire does he like girls to wear, what type of gait, behaviour and such stuff. Do that what he likes, if you want to win him (back), so to say.

Sure he liked you, but he also likes someone else too. His idea of liking someone is a lot different than yours, so don't allow yourself to be an option for when he can't have the other girl.

He's making you his backup if things don't work out with his current beau. Please don't be the backup; you're better than that.

Thank you all, also I found out that this other girl has been with him for over a year, they're not going out but more friends with benefits, according to her. I happened to run into her one night without realising and we talked, I didn't tell her how I really knew him obviously, but he seems to like her a lot more than she does him, I know I will see him around often because my best friend and roommate is seeing his friend, so, its going to be so awkward...

Unless you want to be the booty call, stop this. This guy clearly wants to just get into your pants.