Have you ever fantasized about the person your intimate with, while you were being intimate with them, when being intimate with my husband I find myself fantasizing about things that arouse me and things that shock me that actually turn me on... Such as pulling hair, biting on the neck and choking from behind... full body tongue massages... Digging nails in his back...


Rough sex or demented?


You be the judge

Totally completely normal, natural and healthy In my opinion.

Normal! I fantasize about all kinds of things. Have you shared any of your fantasies with your husband? Maybe he'd be into some of it.

The brain is the largest sex organ.

First why do you feel you need to classify it as "NAUGHTY"? Do you feel there is someone wrong or bad about some sexual actions or desires ?

I also see you used demented, which sounds as a serious problem.

Short of the choking ( felt like that about a ex wife one time but not in a sexual way) what you are saying are actually fairly common practices,

I believe everyone has a fetish, it's just whether we choose to explore them.

X Dani

Nothing wrong with good old fashioned fetishes. Ennjoy them and tell him about them!!