View Full Version : I can't have an orgasm with my boyfriend
samka_love
Oct 28, 2011, 12:11 PM
Ok when and my boyfriend have sex I have trouble ******* no matter how long we sex wats wrong with me?
MrzJohnson26
Oct 28, 2011, 01:15 PM
Hey I have the same experience you do, I don't think there is a problem, you may be getting off and you just might not feel it, not trying to be funny but have you ever asked him if he has felt you have an orgasm, my husband tells me all the time when I do. Don't be ashamed and think there is something wrong with you, if you are that concerned maybe you could speak to your doctor, don't worry about it unless your doctor says there is something to worry about, good luck :)
DaniCalifornia
Oct 28, 2011, 03:03 PM
Firstly, how old are you?
QLP
Oct 28, 2011, 04:01 PM
Hey I have the same experience you do, I don't think there is a problem, you may be getting off and you just might not feel it, not trying to be funny but have you ever asked him if he has felt you have an orgasm, my husband tells me all the time when I do. Don't be ashamed and think there is something wrong with you, if you are that concerned maybe you could speak to your doctor, don't worry about it unless your doctor says there is something to worry about, good luck :)
Are you sure you are having an orgasm if you have to ask someone else to tell you that you are? How do you know your husband is right? To me it's the most intense experience - I couldn't possibly miss it. I'm not being critical; I'm genuinely curious as to if this is possible for some people.
Samka - can you orgasm other ways than through sex such as when you masturbate? Do you share plenty of foreplay or are you talking about long sessions of penetrative sex? Many women cannot orgasm through penetration alone.
MrzJohnson26
Oct 28, 2011, 08:31 PM
It may seem weird to ask someone if they can tell you if you reached that point but for some people such as myself who have a unique situation such as myself it can be a little hard to tell, I'm not trying to be gross but when you stay *** all day long and go see a doctor and she tells you the reason for that being is that you have overly active hormones, and maybe I should correct myself, every once in a while with my husband I have been able to tell, but he is the only one, I guess it could have been my exes maybe wernt getting the job done. Hehe
QLP
Oct 29, 2011, 01:33 AM
Well I'm glad to hear you found a solution to your unique situation. Thanks for sharing that.