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galiria
Oct 27, 2011, 09:47 PM
Hey I have fight with my best friend and I wish someone could help me...

She saying that I that my way changed with her and become bad she is right but I didn't changed from nothing she is the one who begun she treaded me very bad so I tread her the same but when I treaded her bad she told me that I changed a lot and she saying she didn't changed after that we Have resolved that problems and she to me ( welcome back ) and I told her the same then I changed my way to better but she can't see that I changed to better and she changed to better and then we were good and yesterday she told me that my way still the same you didn't get any better I don't know why she looking for problems between me and her and she also said that I tread her she is my enemy if she was my enemy I wasn't going to talk to her from the first place and I told her you tread me like we are just friends... and she also said that it's over to her she said that she don't care about anyone now... And I don't know what can I do now ? :( I just know that I am dispersed and I don't want to lose her she is the best I have ever know she is a good best friend and I love her too much more than anyone I just want to show her what she mean to me...
Hope someone could help me,please
Bye.

ESTEFANY83
Oct 27, 2011, 09:56 PM
There are times when people change. Some for the good and some to be bad. Some change without noticing and that's part of nature. Body chances and you may see it in one way but she can see it differently. What I do when that happens, I get the chances to explain the misunderstanding and also explain that there is no bad feelings or bad intentions. Let them know how special they are in your life. And hope she can understand that friendship is to precious to lose over something so small.. Good luck

galiria
Oct 27, 2011, 10:13 PM
Thanks and I will try to do that... thank you so

0rphan
Oct 29, 2011, 09:05 AM
Hi galiria,

Sadly at some time or another all best friends fall out,they don't mean to,it is just something that happens.
Usually it starts with something very small,which then grows very big.So both of you think that you are at the point of no return,which is silly,all best friends argue at some point or another,then they make up again and all is well.

If I was you and you are not able to talk to your best friend,why don't you buy her a small gift,maybe something personal between you both,you can also add a card... just saying.. Sorry I miss you x

galiria
Oct 31, 2011, 08:35 AM
That's go0d idea thanks for your help...