pinkdiva
Oct 27, 2011, 08:20 AM
Hi, I need help. LOL. I've been with this guy over 2 years now. When we first met we started to spend time together for about a week. Then he went away to study but we still kept in touch with each other. We spoke everyday and chatted/video calling every night until he came back for the X-mas holiday. We share times with both our families but we still weren't official. He then went back to study and after a month and half I had stop hearing much from him.
Then via Facebook I found out there was someone else in his life. We stopped speaking to each since he made it official with this girl. Months after he was planning to come back to live in his home country he contacted me and we started chatting, and so forth.
To cut all this long story short. When he came back since he had finish studying, He looked for me. We started seeing each other from the day he came back and its been so for more than an year. And I know he was with this girl but she only visits about every 3 months or for about a week. Meanwhile we spend so much time together and he means the world to me. I spend time with his family and he does the same with mine.
He always says he doesn't know what to do, cause he doesn't know who to choose. And when his girlfriend is here, he keeps calling me and sending frozen drinks to my office. He says he's confused and so forth. He's controlling and he expects me to be like his girlfriend even though we aren't official. He's jealous, doesn't like when I go out. And so forth.
The other day I went through his phone which I don't usually do and I found some text from this other girl. Calling him "babe" and asking when they can hang out. Well, I flipped out and left him, but he says he doesn't have anything with this girl but I think that BS! Someone won't call him babe for any reason. Anyway we settled things a bit, and then I decided to do my own little investigation about this other girl. Found she had a baby and some guy. So added the guy on FB to see who he was and apparently someone told him that I had been doing some investigation, but he didn't tell me anything about it but someone else did. He got mad at me over no reason without explaining.
Its been a week we haven't spoken to each other. He had broke my phone a month ago and he has sent me a new one this week. I really want to know if I should for tell him to decide who he wants to be with, or if I should just move on and find someone who's mine, and I would be their priority not their option... Please help!
Then via Facebook I found out there was someone else in his life. We stopped speaking to each since he made it official with this girl. Months after he was planning to come back to live in his home country he contacted me and we started chatting, and so forth.
To cut all this long story short. When he came back since he had finish studying, He looked for me. We started seeing each other from the day he came back and its been so for more than an year. And I know he was with this girl but she only visits about every 3 months or for about a week. Meanwhile we spend so much time together and he means the world to me. I spend time with his family and he does the same with mine.
He always says he doesn't know what to do, cause he doesn't know who to choose. And when his girlfriend is here, he keeps calling me and sending frozen drinks to my office. He says he's confused and so forth. He's controlling and he expects me to be like his girlfriend even though we aren't official. He's jealous, doesn't like when I go out. And so forth.
The other day I went through his phone which I don't usually do and I found some text from this other girl. Calling him "babe" and asking when they can hang out. Well, I flipped out and left him, but he says he doesn't have anything with this girl but I think that BS! Someone won't call him babe for any reason. Anyway we settled things a bit, and then I decided to do my own little investigation about this other girl. Found she had a baby and some guy. So added the guy on FB to see who he was and apparently someone told him that I had been doing some investigation, but he didn't tell me anything about it but someone else did. He got mad at me over no reason without explaining.
Its been a week we haven't spoken to each other. He had broke my phone a month ago and he has sent me a new one this week. I really want to know if I should for tell him to decide who he wants to be with, or if I should just move on and find someone who's mine, and I would be their priority not their option... Please help!