confounded
Oct 20, 2011, 11:20 PM
I opened my email and realized after I started reading an email from my neighbor that it was actually addressed to my wife! I had opened her email account accidentally as I thought I was the account signed in to windows.
Anyway, the email said "How's YOUR bush?" with an attached picture of the large bushes growing by his house. The guy has always thrown out these "jokes" around my wife, sometimes very racy, about seeing her naked, referring to her body parts or even her intimate parts.
Well, the email got me going. I quickly clicked and sorted so that all the emails from this guy were in a row and started reading them. There were lots of suggestive stuff in them. One had a picture of my wife playing a dance video game he had taken at a party I was at with her. The email said she was his FAVORITE neighbor and will ALWAYS be his favorite. I remember him sitting there watching her dance and videoing the entire dance on his phone. Was a little creepy, but didn't bother me.
As I was reading these emails I could see the history of some of my wife's replies. I was shocked. She was playing back with him in the same suggestive but joking tone. In one email she said she did not have a vajazzle (decorative beaded design on the skin above the vagina) but she said she wanted him to get a "pen-azzle" (same thing for the penis?) and that "he HAD BETTER send her pics of that immediately!"
I also saw some other emails (yes, I was snooping at this point) my wife had sent to a different friend apologizing for flirting with the friend's husband and sitting on his lap at a party. ( I was not at this party obviously!)
IS this just healthy flirting? Should I confront her about it? Honestly, I am jealous about this for sure, but I am also struggling with these strange excited feelings. Is that crazy?
Anyway, the email said "How's YOUR bush?" with an attached picture of the large bushes growing by his house. The guy has always thrown out these "jokes" around my wife, sometimes very racy, about seeing her naked, referring to her body parts or even her intimate parts.
Well, the email got me going. I quickly clicked and sorted so that all the emails from this guy were in a row and started reading them. There were lots of suggestive stuff in them. One had a picture of my wife playing a dance video game he had taken at a party I was at with her. The email said she was his FAVORITE neighbor and will ALWAYS be his favorite. I remember him sitting there watching her dance and videoing the entire dance on his phone. Was a little creepy, but didn't bother me.
As I was reading these emails I could see the history of some of my wife's replies. I was shocked. She was playing back with him in the same suggestive but joking tone. In one email she said she did not have a vajazzle (decorative beaded design on the skin above the vagina) but she said she wanted him to get a "pen-azzle" (same thing for the penis?) and that "he HAD BETTER send her pics of that immediately!"
I also saw some other emails (yes, I was snooping at this point) my wife had sent to a different friend apologizing for flirting with the friend's husband and sitting on his lap at a party. ( I was not at this party obviously!)
IS this just healthy flirting? Should I confront her about it? Honestly, I am jealous about this for sure, but I am also struggling with these strange excited feelings. Is that crazy?