My boyfriends mother is extremely in love with his ex-girlfriend. The Ex-girl has now moved out of state but she continues to come back and visit because this is her home. The mother and the ex are always skyping, visiting each other, and hanging out. The mother told me that will always be her daughter but that has nothing to do with me and her son. What do I do for the holiday season? She is definitely invited to his family holiday dinners and that will make me extremely uncomfortable. Who wants to eat turkey with their boyfriend, the ex, and the mom? Weird! So what do I do? I'm cool with some of the ex's friends, I am positive she still has strong feelings for him (her 1st love).