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mummy89
Oct 17, 2011, 02:17 PM
We have a 1 and half year old son . Just when I got pregnant we broke up and 2 days later he got a new girlfriend. When I told him I was pregnant his new girlfriend asked me for a pregnancy test. He said nothing we got back togather since then are relationship has been hard as I find it hard to trust what he says . I have since found out that this girl met his mum and he told her he loved her. He told me he loved me after are first week so now I'm not sure he ever loved me or is it just something he tells everyone . I've separated with him and he made little to no effort to get back togather... He says it because he can't change the past and I won't forgive him so he doesn't no what to do so does nothing... I don't know if I can forget the past.. We've been togather 4 year and is the only guy I have ever been with... I really want to have a family but I'm not sure if he only came back to me cause of the baby... He says I broke up with him and the girl was just a rebound .

JoeCanada76
Oct 17, 2011, 08:45 PM
It sounds like you already took him back. Looks like he is still with you. Now it is not up to me or anybody else to make this decision for you.

You broke up with him and got with a girl 2 days later. Then came back to you when he found out that you were pregnant.

Question do you trust him? Yes or No?
Do you see a future with him?

How is your everyday relationship? Do you truly love him?
Does he truly love you?

These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself. You will then probably come up with the answer of what you need to do. What is best for you and your little one.

Res642
Oct 23, 2012, 06:59 AM
Seems to methat he is a bad person and you should not get back with him and get him out of your life from my point of vu he probably just wanted to have sex then to the next