simonm16
Oct 16, 2011, 05:22 PM
This girl I like who also likes me because she's told me she fancies me is messing with my head. She's on her placement year for uni so is 2.30 hours away. She's said many times that she fancies me but has been on some dates with a guy up there. I've stayed the weekend up there and we had sex and were really couply etc, holding hands, hugging, went for a meal, went partying and were getting close.
She then a week after I got home got really scared because she's been hurt a lot in the past and is too defensive and realistic for her own good (her words) too let someone in so quickly she really needs to know someone. She's bad at replying to texts although before she had settled into her job and made new friends up there she was talking to me every day and would have long phone conversations etc. She said it takes awhile to start seeing someone because she has to get to know them a lot first.
She's said she doesn't want a relationship at the moment which is fine. But she never messages me as she's busy making new friends and working full time, but it's always me texting her first but she doesn't text me back half the time, and when we do talk it gets emotional and she's really scared about commitment etc. I really really like her I've not met such a cracking girl so I don't know what to do, is she playing hard to get or what? I really don't know whether to continue the chase or see if she will come to me if I disappear?
She then a week after I got home got really scared because she's been hurt a lot in the past and is too defensive and realistic for her own good (her words) too let someone in so quickly she really needs to know someone. She's bad at replying to texts although before she had settled into her job and made new friends up there she was talking to me every day and would have long phone conversations etc. She said it takes awhile to start seeing someone because she has to get to know them a lot first.
She's said she doesn't want a relationship at the moment which is fine. But she never messages me as she's busy making new friends and working full time, but it's always me texting her first but she doesn't text me back half the time, and when we do talk it gets emotional and she's really scared about commitment etc. I really really like her I've not met such a cracking girl so I don't know what to do, is she playing hard to get or what? I really don't know whether to continue the chase or see if she will come to me if I disappear?