mike111
Oct 15, 2011, 07:15 PM
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 months. I know that 4 months is not a long period, but we almost see each other every day, and we stay together for a minimum of 4 hours a day. That's mean that we had long time together, we were in love after 3 weeks. I really loved her so much, and I was honest with her. She gave me love.
We used to be in contact all the time by texting, and I didn't t feel anything wrong with her. Until one day I checked her cell phone and I found out a message sent in which, it was written so, "hello darling how are you? I really miss you, and I need you so much, miss you. Have a nice day"
I was shocked and wondered who is this person. I saved his number on my cell ,and then I left her and told her that she cheated me. After that she said to me the message that I read was written by her friend to her boyfriend, and her friend can use her phone any time.
So I called the number to whom the message was sent and I found out that he was her boyfriend for 3 years, and he said that in the past 4 months the relationship became cold and it is almost over, but he said that they didn't t broke up. I told her that I knew the truth and that she lied to me, and cheated on me, but she said that she loves me so much and the reason that she sent the message was to give her ex or her complicated boy friend hope to come back to her, and then tell him that she found her love and that it is too late to apologize, because he become cold with her, and she told me that I am the only one in her life now, and she is going the change her mobile number, and stay with me from now on.
I didn't t even try to understand this and I told her to go away, and I broke up with her because she is a liar and a cheater. The problem that I still love her, and I don t know if I should come back to her, or forgive her, and trust her again? She called me with her new number and told me that she no longer can live without me, and that she is waiting for me to come back.
But she didn't t apologize. I feel that she doesn't t consider it as she cheated me. She always says that she didn't cheat on me. Please tell me what should I do. Can I trust her?
We used to be in contact all the time by texting, and I didn't t feel anything wrong with her. Until one day I checked her cell phone and I found out a message sent in which, it was written so, "hello darling how are you? I really miss you, and I need you so much, miss you. Have a nice day"
I was shocked and wondered who is this person. I saved his number on my cell ,and then I left her and told her that she cheated me. After that she said to me the message that I read was written by her friend to her boyfriend, and her friend can use her phone any time.
So I called the number to whom the message was sent and I found out that he was her boyfriend for 3 years, and he said that in the past 4 months the relationship became cold and it is almost over, but he said that they didn't t broke up. I told her that I knew the truth and that she lied to me, and cheated on me, but she said that she loves me so much and the reason that she sent the message was to give her ex or her complicated boy friend hope to come back to her, and then tell him that she found her love and that it is too late to apologize, because he become cold with her, and she told me that I am the only one in her life now, and she is going the change her mobile number, and stay with me from now on.
I didn't t even try to understand this and I told her to go away, and I broke up with her because she is a liar and a cheater. The problem that I still love her, and I don t know if I should come back to her, or forgive her, and trust her again? She called me with her new number and told me that she no longer can live without me, and that she is waiting for me to come back.
But she didn't t apologize. I feel that she doesn't t consider it as she cheated me. She always says that she didn't cheat on me. Please tell me what should I do. Can I trust her?