My 19 year old son was booted out of his dads house upstairs and he has now moved downstairs with me. He is so mean, abusive, cruel, and ugly to me. He uses me, steals from me, the list goes on... please, someone can maybe give me a backbone to get his *** out of my home?

He is 19, he can take care of himself. Have the guts and do it, you'll feel bad at first but your home will be much more peaceful after he leaves.

My 19 year old son was booted out of his dads house upstairs and he has now moved downstairs with me. He is so mean, abusive, cruel, and ugly to me. He uses me, steals from me, the list goes on....................please, someone can maybe give me a backbone to get his *** out of my home?

How does he use you? Backbone you can not get from any of us. It is up to you to be treated the way you are, or to get him out. There must have been a reason why he was booted out of his dads, so if his dad can do it. I am sure you can.