This is going to be a long question so please bear with me, I've been sexually active since I was seventeen. I've had sex with only one person and I married the same person four years ago. We have an amazing sex life considering that we've been together for almost nine years now. I live in a society where sex is rarely spoken about. I have this gang of girl friends who are all married and whenever we meet, we do talk about sex.

The thing that bothers me is that they all talk about how gross giving blowjobs( they don't even know that word) is, and that they hate it, and how their husbands beg and plead with them to do it and they still don't do it. I just sit there nodding my head, but the thing is I love giving blowjobs to my husband, I get very turned on and I feel powerful that I can envoke such reactions from him. Is something wrong with me? We are a gang of 12 and I feel odd that all the other eleven hate it and I don't. Do women enjoy giving blowjobs? I cannot talk about this to anyone else and please forgive me if I've made any mistakes in typing this, since English is not my Mother Tongue.

There is nothing wrong with you at all. Everybody has different preferences for sex and what it involves. What matters is that you and your husband enjoy it together. Does not matter whether anybody else likes it or talks about it. Guaranteed somebody else probably enjoys doing it to but will not admit it like you.? Right?

If you like doing it then what is the problem. I know your husband likes it. You're not unusual. In my sample set of women who have deemed themselves worthy to sleep with me. One has enjoyed blowjobs. Thankfully that is my current Girlfriend.

It is a matter of preference. I know that there are guys who are reluctant to return the favour as it were. It is a matter of preference.

Enjoying blowjobs isn't something to be ashamed of. :-)

I don't think there is anything that you have to be ashamed of. All you need is keep is between you and your husband. However, I would say, rarely men would prefer to do the same with their women. In my case, I told my wife I discussed that with my wife. I told her I enjoy blogjob more than even ****ing her. That has strengthened our relationship.

AJ that is factually incorrect. It is your opinion that men rarely prefer to do the same with their women. However MANY men enjoy giving oral sex, and many even prefer it to receiving. Many men refuse to get a blowjob, but INSIST on giving oral sex to his woman.

Every person is different. Please do not generalize your opinions to make them look like facts.

I have to agree with jenniepepsi.

As for the OP... they sound like a bunch of prudes. Don't worry about what they say. There are probably a few of them that enjoy it also but just won't admit to it. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, do what you want to do and don't worry what others think.

BUT, if you ask them, you hate it also, since you nod and agree, it is possible that some of them do it and are lying to make it sound proper.

I don't talk about my sex life at home with anyone myself.
So if you love it, why have you not told them, Maybe the same reason they others are not saying they love it either

Thanks for the answers, I will not agree to them and not talk about my sex life with them... And yes, my husband also likes giving me oral sex... :)