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aminmeow
Oct 12, 2011, 04:28 AM
Hello people, I live in city where everybody is busy, so I have a adorable girlfriend before, and now she is gone,we have been broke up for 2week now, things happen for small misunderstanding , got into a fight with her, then we breakup , we have been in relationships for 2years . She is like a best friends to me, every problem I have she will always support and be with me . After we broke up, a few guys try which I don't really know try to take her out. And she seem to like it. I'm pretty jealous, but I keep it cool. Even we broke up, I use to call her every night , she always told me that she love me more than anything in this world even went we have broke up , she still said I love you . Weird right? but the problem is she don't want me to be her boyfriend. She said lets just be friend. I have try so hard to win her heart back, send her flower, chocolate written sorry, played guitar and sing her a song, but none of it impress her, darn it. She keep saying no, she said I need a space want to be single now. And even know we have break up but still she wants to sex with me. Judging from my story do you know what to do ? I just can get away from her :(

talaniman
Oct 12, 2011, 05:08 PM
Leave her alone and let her be single. Sorry guy but when a female doesn't want you, you leave her alone and move on. There are other females to date and have fun with.

vanheart
Oct 12, 2011, 07:05 PM
My ex also said she wants to be single.
I let her.

"the problem is she don't want me to be her boyfriend"
Did you get that one?

Stop trying.

Like Tal said, have fun. There's other girls.

No reason to be miserable, now. Is there?

monkeyninja601
Jan 8, 2012, 04:57 PM
I think this girl isn't ready to settle down because she wants and enjoys the attention off other lads. I wouldn't worry though if you want her back. I say this because you can have her back because she does want you. If you want this you have to listen to me now okay... now be very cool, this means, no flowers, no saying I love you, I miss you, no texting and no ringing. That is where everyman goes wrong. It will simply push her further away.
Here is what you need to do... write a short hand written letter telling her that the break-up was the best idea, tell her you are feeling so strong and are excited about something positive in your life. Do not be soppy in this letter beacause that will push her away. This girl need to know that you are THE MAN to provide her for life. After the letter, wait for her to contact you. Do not be overly nice and do not agree to everything she says. Just be a friend. This may happen for some time. Eventually you may date her. On date talk about good memories, don't bring up bad past times but if she does, briefly talk about it but make it positive. Trust me, if this technique is used the correct way it is dangerously effective.
1- write short letter, agreeing with break-up
2- stay cool (dont be too nice) don't get upset all the time, it confirms the break-up for her
3- be a whitty friend, when she contacts you.
4- do not contact her
5- watch her come crawling back, my friend. Tried and tested by me and many others. Peace and good luck.
(by the way, getting her back is the easy part, keeping her is the difficult bit)

Fr_Chuck
Jan 8, 2012, 05:21 PM
You don't call, you don't write, and don't beg. So if she really loves you and wants to be with you, she will come back to you, if not, you are free to find someone else