I'm 33 and feel really down when it comes to relationships and trusting a guy. I used to be a very positive person when it came to thinking optimistically about dating but because of sour experiences I can say I've even become a bit cynical, which I don't like but can't help cause of the people I've dated or came across. I really want to be in a relationship with someone who appreciates and understands me... recently I met this guy, who I'm attracted to and feel he is the same towards me... we went on two dates and speak a lot of the phone... he's extremely busy with work and because of that we don't spend as much time as I would like to... I'm not at all a high maintenance kind of girl but it's a standard norm that when you meet someone you spend time with them to get to know each other... we made out once, pretty intense but not sex, I made it clear I don't want to rush and it's too early for that stage, of course he's a guy so their minds are automatically diverted into other things, but anyway that's not the point... the pint is that I feel, although I Know he works a lot and is running around, but I would like to spend more time with him, even call him more but I feel like I'd disturb him and in a way, Just like all other females, we like to be chased... I don't know what to do, cause I really want to spend more time with him and maybe tell him (which I did once)... you think I should ignore him a bit and play it off like I'm really busy as well? What are your suggestions on this?