I'm just curious this morning this guy that works with me sends me a text message apologizing that it's been brought to his attention that he's been over friendly with a lot of woman.He said he don't mean to but if he seem to have said anything unappropiate or misleading he was sorry.He said that he didn't mean to mislead or hurt anyone.Now this guy and I we text but we never had like sexual conversation or anything it's mostly how are you doing hope your day is well , occasionally he gets flirtatious on me give me some what compliments no biggie.I mean a female knows when a man is trying to come on to her or not.

My thing is when he sent me the text I did understand why he sent it to me.in fact I text him back and ask him ,What are you even talking about? He said that a lot people said that he's over friendly.It seem as he personaly want to get a message to me that if he came on as if he were interested he was just being nice.

Now here's my question , I've been seeing someone for while and he's been my lover past a yr.I have mentioned to him that this guy text me.He's married so I wanted to break away .I'm not sure if that works hand in hand with that but it's just funny because no one and I mean absolutely no one knew about him texting me except my lover.Why do you think he text me that message?

I have a friend who has some mild mental health issues. He takes meds to balance him out and for the most part they work. But they make him a little paranoid sometimes. He regularly will ask me if he's said anything inappropriate or offensive even when I can't see any real reason for him being concerned. It could be something like that.

Or, maybe someone felt his friendliness was becoming overly friendly and he was worried about or threatened with getting in trouble for sexual harassment and wanted to make sure any of his other female friends weren't feeling harassed.

I'm sure there's plenty of other possibilities too. We can guess all day, but in the end he's the only one that knows his real reasons.