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seximeli15
Oct 7, 2011, 11:33 AM
So I was with this guy, for like two three months. We have known each other for like four years, so now we met up on Facebook we have been taking it slow. I give him his space, but yesterday we both agreed that we needed some space.. now I regret it cause I miss him.. what to do now? What did I do wrong? I guess I let my emotions get the best of me.

joypulv
Oct 7, 2011, 12:34 PM
You forgot to tell us what the obstacles are, and what heppened to cause the breakup ('needing more space') yestaerday. Keep in mind that we aren't there and don't know you.

Charlie0x
Oct 7, 2011, 01:17 PM
Please add more detail. When and how did you break up? Etc

seximeli15
Oct 8, 2011, 07:52 AM
So we broke up like on Thursday, this weekend is his son birthday. His baby moms sort of kind of does things out of spite. She will tell him to watch the son and not pick him up till the next day. He works second shift and I work first, these are the obstacles we make time but not as much as I wAnt.

Charlie0x
Oct 8, 2011, 09:40 AM
Try to talk to him, tell him you two need to find a way to spend more time together but you really do care for him.

seximeli15
Oct 8, 2011, 09:50 AM
@charlir yes I do n its messed up. Maybe I care more then he does because he does not talk he holds a lot of stuff in. Also, I don't want to be the first one to make the move because I'm not ready for the reaction.

talaniman
Oct 8, 2011, 11:39 AM
Its was only a few months of dating, even though you have known him longer. So you knew he had a baby mama, and he has obligations besides a new girlfriend/date.

Take some time and space, as for sure its way to soon to be pushy, or demanding OR give your heart to someone that you know has higher and more important priorities, and obligations.

You never want to be caught between a guy and his FAMILY, or an option for someone else. I wouldn't.

seximeli15
Oct 8, 2011, 11:52 AM
@talanimum we both have obligations I have a daughter.. its just I just want to have somebody there for me.. wow.. that is so true, it is to early to be demanding. Guess ill put that to the side for now.