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auroraaa
Oct 6, 2011, 03:34 PM
I know that he is very busy as he has to work, go to school & fix his house.
But I still want him to send me some Facebook messages at least.
I don't want to complain in front of him too as I don't want him to think that I'm childish.
I totally trust him.
I'm trying to be very positive.
But there are times I feel very bad for so out of connection.
Even though the last phone call, it was because I asked him, "r you not going to call me anymore?"
I want to call him but I have no idea when he is free.
I sent him many messages on Facebook but he didn't reply any.
I feel like breaking up with him as I rather to be a single.
I don't want to miss him anymore.
What should I do please?

Give me some ideas. Thanks.

talaniman
Oct 6, 2011, 07:56 PM
And you think there is a future with a guy who ignores you for a week? Nobody is that busy. He has other priorities, and you are not at the top of the list. So take him off the top of your list is what you do. That's fair isn't it?

How long have you been with this fellow?

odinn7
Oct 6, 2011, 07:59 PM
He sounds like a bum... as Tal said, he can't be so busy that he can't even contact you for a week. How about you try not contacting him anymore and see what happens?

My opinion? I think you'd be better off forgetting him and moving on.

goldagarda
Oct 7, 2011, 04:11 PM
It doesn't matter how busy someone is, if they care, they'll find the time. If he has time to sleep, he has time for a 5 minute phone call.

ramymasc
Mar 6, 2012, 10:27 AM
I hope everything is fine between you guys. But FYI my boyfriend said he was so busy and did not call me/text msg/ whatsapp/fb message me from dec 5th 2011 till feb 21 2012.! So I guess it all depends on you weather you decide to fight or quit. But trust me.. it hurts like hell!! I swear. :'(