Joshkhall
Oct 5, 2011, 07:29 AM
Okay,
Me and this girl have been bestfriends over a year now. & just recently we shared our feelings that we like each other. Well, yesterday she said "I love you" which is completely normal, we say it a lot to each other. & actually mean it. Anyway I said "I love you too" she asked "more then just a friend?" I said "yess" & it was bothering me that I didn't tell her I love her as a girlfriend. Today I finally did, she said" You want me to be your girlfriend? Like right now?" I said "Well.. I do. But it doesn't have to be now. Cause I don't know how you feel about it" she said that really liked me & all. But she didn't want a relationship because it distracts her from school work." I said okay, I understand." which really I felt hurt inside. What should I do? I have to talk to her, she's my best friend. But when I talk to her, I think about it. & I'm very vague when I talk to her, because if it. Please help!
Me and this girl have been bestfriends over a year now. & just recently we shared our feelings that we like each other. Well, yesterday she said "I love you" which is completely normal, we say it a lot to each other. & actually mean it. Anyway I said "I love you too" she asked "more then just a friend?" I said "yess" & it was bothering me that I didn't tell her I love her as a girlfriend. Today I finally did, she said" You want me to be your girlfriend? Like right now?" I said "Well.. I do. But it doesn't have to be now. Cause I don't know how you feel about it" she said that really liked me & all. But she didn't want a relationship because it distracts her from school work." I said okay, I understand." which really I felt hurt inside. What should I do? I have to talk to her, she's my best friend. But when I talk to her, I think about it. & I'm very vague when I talk to her, because if it. Please help!