Now I am 21 yrs old girl. I happened to meet my school junior, a guy in a social networking site in holidays, and started to do friendship with him. After a few days he was little attracted to me and proposed one fine day. I was impressed by the way he was and accepted and after that he was so close to me and impressed in such a way that I felt like this is just enough for my life.

We started meeting outside and we became very close in a month. After few days we happened to move out of our places, and now we got engaged in our works and we are living in different states. Its almost 4 months we are into relationship.

Last week my boyfriend started asking that he wants to have sex with me when he meets me in next month. I was against it for the first time when he asked but after few days even I also agreed for it. We decided to meet next month and planned for it, but from last two days after I agreed, he started ignoring me. He is not calling me or texting me as before. He is just responding only when I do. When I asked why are you not finding any interest to talk to me these days he just answers that he is busy. I am really worried whether my relationship is going on well or not.

I am so sad that my boyfriend is ignoring me.


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He already knows what's coming (sex), so there is no reason to pursue so much any more. Tell him that his actions have made you rethink the whole sex issue.

He will be mad, but he will also show you something's about him you need to know.

People who run hot and cold can be very damaging for your emotional well being. It is a form of manipulation. It can reduce yourself confidence to the point where you are grateful for ANY attention that the person gives to you. Find a boyfriend who likes you ALL the time.