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nascar_tjc
Sep 27, 2011, 10:02 PM
Trying to find my adopted daughter she is all most 20 years old she has a right to no I am alive and come and meet me know ,

nascar_tjc
Sep 27, 2011, 10:06 PM
Where she is and what they look like what kind of of back ground they got

ScottGem
Sep 28, 2011, 03:54 AM
Actually no, she doesn't have that right, nor do you you. In some areas she has a right to a medical history of her biological parents. But if the adoption was sealed that all she has a legal right to.

At the time you signed her over for adoption you should have been given info about the background of her adoptive parents.

There are several different sites where you can register to allow her to find you or see if she is looking for you. You can easily search for them. However there is no single site that covers all so you may have to register at several.

But there is no guarantee she is looking for you and you have no right to impose yourself on her life unless she is.

Synnen
Sep 28, 2011, 05:42 AM
What country are you in?

Why is your adoption not open or semi-open?

I placed my daughter for adoption 20 years ago, and I know they were pushing semi-open adoptions in the US at that time.