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laurenhall12
Sep 9, 2011, 07:55 PM
I am a 14 year old girl and I had sex two days ago for my first time. I got off my period like two weeks ago and today when I was at school I went to the bathroom and there was a couple drops of blood and it stung really bad.Is this normal?

AlanaFlowe
Sep 11, 2011, 06:59 PM
Well, it is hard to say I am 15 and still a virgin but a lot of my friends have had the same thing happen to them. It all depends on how hard your... boyfriend? Went inside of you, usually it is best to go at a slow rate on your first time.

However; yes it is common to most females to bleed their first time having sex which will include pain.. sting. If it continues a week from now, I suggest you get it checked out hun. :]

~Hope this helps...

jenniepepsi
Sep 25, 2011, 12:30 PM
Yes it is normal. Not only are you losing your hymen, there is slight tearing, and the juices from your vagina get on, in, around any tears, and cause it to burn. Keep yourself clean, and keep track of your menstrual cycle.

And I feel as an adult, I should say something. I am not judging you, nor am I DEMANDING that you stop. But please keep in mind all the consequences of having sex, and remember that you are 14. Pregnancy (even with protection of all kinds) STD (again even with protection) emotional side effects, such as going through the feeling of loss when your sexual partner finally moves on and leaves you behind for someone new.

Sex brings a lot of responsibility. And I do not think you are ready for them.

Good luck!