Well, I'm in love with 2 guys, Elliot, who is insanely hot, sweet, and loves all the same things I do, but is 16 years old, but I'm dating Alasdair, who is shorter then me, is obsessed with war things, and same age as me. Me and Alasdair have been dating for 3 months, but he treats me like a friend still, and we never talk except on Facebook. But with me and Elliot we text, and talk and see each other before school.( I live across the street from the high school Elliot goes to) and I have no idea what to do, I don't have feelings for Alasdair any more because of the way we are more like friends then boyfriend/girlfriend. But I don't want to break up with him because I don't want to hurt him, what do I do? Is there a way for me to get Alasdair to break up with me, or something, PLEASE HELP ME!

How old are you?

I'm a little confused.

You said you're "in love" with two guys, Alasdair and Elliot. Then you say this;


I don't have feelings for alasdair any more

Then break up with him, and take control of your life and who you allow in it.

If you cannot be honest with the boyfriend you want to dump, you aren't ready for a boyfriend period.

So date both ? Who says you have to date just one ?