View Full Version : When he says he wants to cuddle..
Trixx91
Aug 31, 2011, 12:33 PM
I've been seeing this guy for the last week or two and I text him today to see what he was doing. I asked if he wanted to hang out some time. He said yeah. He lives alone. I asked him what he wants for me and him... he text me back "Just to cuddle". A week ago he said he needed a girlfriend now "just to cuddle". What does he want from me? Guys, what are you trying to say when you tell a girl you want to "cuddle"? Is it always sex or more?
spitvenom
Aug 31, 2011, 12:47 PM
I think he is confused by your question. I think when you asked if he wanted to hang out and he said yeah and you asked what does he want for you and him he was thinking that night not long term. And you can cuddle without sex it is possible.
QLP
Aug 31, 2011, 08:06 PM
Maybe he thought you were asking him if he was expecing sex and 'just to cuddle' was actually meant to reassure you he wasn't trying to push things too fast. Get to know each other a little better and all should become a bit clearer.