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Marrelene
Aug 26, 2011, 12:41 PM
I need all the help I can get!!

I was mentally abused for 22 years by my sons father. About 11 months ago he brought an Indian lady into our home to live. We all lived together for 8 months that is my sons father, his new girlfriend and my son.

During this time my sons father always hid food away from me and shouted at me in front of my son.

I had no option but to leave this home and moved in with my older daughter who is 33 years old my son is only 19 years old. My daughter and her husband were very unpleasant toward me also hiding food away tea and coffee, I feel like I am nothing and mean nothing to anyone.

I do not work anymore as my sons father took care of me! Now I am unemployed have rent to pay and feed myself. My son does not visit as often as I would like him too.

I have been pushed aside by everyone, except for my dear friend who has always been there for me. I use to be a motivated lady who could offord to look after myself.

How do I get my confidence back again? And my son to contact me he does not respond to me , I need a little interaction with him and miss him dearly.

I am 60 years old on the 20th of September What should I do!


Xx

Wondergirl
Aug 26, 2011, 12:45 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your troubles.

Is your husband living with his girlfriend now? Is there a divorce in the works?

I don't understand the "hiding food" thing at your daughter's. Tell me more about that.

Marrelene
Aug 26, 2011, 12:47 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your troubles.

Is your husband living with his girlfriend now? Is there a divorce in the works?

I don't understand the "hiding food" thing at your daughter's. Tell me more about that.

We were never married. He is still living with this woman

Marrelene
Aug 26, 2011, 12:49 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your troubles.

Is your husband living with his girlfriend now? Is there a divorce in the works?

I don't understand the "hiding food" thing at your daughter's. Tell me more about that.

My daughter rarely fed me! I starved.. and my child's father hid food from me too
My friend is the one I have to thank

Wondergirl
Aug 26, 2011, 01:03 PM
Weren't you allowed in the kitchen? How could they starve you?

Do you have any source of income?

(Sorry for all the questions -- am trying to wrap my mind around this situation.)