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cat1252
Aug 22, 2011, 03:17 PM
We know that we love each other, but he is scared of being called a pedo plus we are stuck because he lives in Leighster, and I live in Boston. What should we do?

sHazel
Aug 22, 2011, 05:01 PM
If he is 14 years old and you are 11 years old he isn't a pedo at least as long as he isn't 18 and then it depends if your parents like him or not

ScottGem
Aug 22, 2011, 05:07 PM
You are a child, so is he. I'm sure you think you are in love, but you really know little about it. And I suspect he is using the pedo thing to try and let you down easy.

What do your parents think of this?

talaniman
Aug 22, 2011, 05:30 PM
Ask your mom for some advice.

odinn7
Aug 22, 2011, 05:57 PM
Forget about him. You're too young to worry about or actually be "in love". Be a kid while you still can.

Wondergirl
Aug 22, 2011, 06:06 PM
When I was 11, I was in love with a 14 y/o boy too. Then I took a couple of deep breaths, and when my heart stopped beating so fast and I'd returned to Earth, I played catch with my little brother, weeded our family garden, helped my mom make cookies, and washed the kitchen and bathroom floors. After that, I did my homework and watched a little bit of TV before I went to bed.

Fr_Chuck
Aug 22, 2011, 06:17 PM
11 is a great time to start having crushes, it is a strong feeling and a start

First are you sure he is a 14 year old boy, did you ever really meet, or just online

odinn7
Aug 22, 2011, 06:43 PM
First are you sure he is a 14 year old boy, did you ever really meet, or just online

I can't give you a +1... too bad.

That's a great point.

If you've never met him, it is possible he is lying to you. Do your parents know about this boy?