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dolala
Aug 21, 2011, 10:35 AM
I have a boyfriend. I have been with him about 7 months now, but I felt lately that he is uninterested in me, but I still like him. Well a couple days ago a guy I met, told me he liked me, and after that I started to develop a crush on him. No one has said it to me like he has before...

Now I have no clue what to do. Help me.. :(


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amicon
Aug 21, 2011, 10:36 AM
How old are you?

Have you talked to your boyfriend about your worries?

dolala
Aug 21, 2011, 10:38 AM
16 and no cause I don't know how to say to him and I don't want him to get angry with me or the other person

amicon
Aug 21, 2011, 10:43 AM
I think you talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling i.e. how he seems less into you.

Replacing one boyfriend with another is not a good idea.

talaniman
Aug 21, 2011, 03:08 PM
You either be honest, and handle your business with your boyfriend, or be a lying cheater.

deletexox
Aug 23, 2011, 10:48 AM
Unless you feel the need to break up with your boyfriend now, you could honestly only be attracted to this other guy because he is interested you.
You say your boyfriend isn't showing as much interest anymore, so you may be looking for it in places elsewhere - like this other guy.
The lack of interest from your boyfriend can certainly be due to that "new relationship" feeling fading. It happens to everyone, and if its really bothering you so much - talk to him! I know I have felt ridiculous bringing up similar issues with my boyfriend, but its all worked out in the end.

If it comes to the point where you have no more interest in your boyfriend and you aren't looking foreword to see him anymore, you don't think of him fondly, etc, etc, etc, it may be time to reconsider whether you should be with him, and whether you want a boyfriend period.

Goodluck!

mmresd
Aug 24, 2011, 06:42 PM
It is very simple, if you don't like the person you are with now and you wish to pursue something with someone else, then break it up and start with the other person, just make sure you consider everyone's feelings by making that break up and no cheating!

Good Luck,
Javi