How long can I hold up the divorce and can I how long can I keep her from her stuff

You sound like a real winner. Why don't you explain what you mean? She is divorcing you and you want to keep her around, or in your life and you won't let her have her belongings? Please do explain, I can't wait.

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She was cheating on me with my best friends and left me.She things that I am in title to nothing and wants me to giver her stuff back asap matt

... She things that i am in title to nothing ...

Translated, does this possibly mean "She owns things that I am not entitled to"?

Give them back to her if they are hers. Keep them if they are not hers. Simple concept.

You can drag a divorce out for years if you have enough money ( 10s of thousand of dollars and more)

You can not keep her from getting things that belong to her alone. She can enter back into the home that you and her have as long as you are married and are not legally separated. So to get her stuff, she just has to come get it.