This woman who is 31 have been flirting with me for almost 2 years. She has a boyfriend who she live with and her boyfriend is my relative. We both flirted off and on for a while until I got tired of the drama. I knew I was wrong for this and decided I was going to stop. During those times of flirting, she told her boyfriend on me and acted like she didn't want me. (she will text flirty text messages so I can respond back) This has happened over 3 times and of course he was pissed. I left it alone a couple times but she kept giving me signs like avoiding eye contact when he is around and when he is gone she will look at me. Only time she looks at me when he is around is when she is behind him or hiding. Her boyfriend was pissed and had to separate us from each other. I told her I was completely done with her and she kept ignoring me.

I heard she was pregnant by her boyfriend and I congratulated her one night and she didn't respond at all. I had to make her say thank you. I didn't get the message until 1 in the morning. I felt we were cool so I told her about my new girlfriend and she ignore the text. I was really hurt from all the pain she put me through so I was bragging about my new girlfriend.. still no response. After a month later I came over to their new house to talk to her boyfriend ( we made up) and we all laugh and hung around. I ignored her the whole time I was there. She butted in our conversation, listened in on me and followed me outside when I went to the car.. she was taking out the trash. She acted normal and nice about everything kind of. The next day her boyfriend was pissed at me because of the picture message I sent her a month ago. I was like why would you just now show him that? I know it was wrong but why all of a sudden show him now? It was only a picture of me and her (photoshop) I sent her a long confession note too but she didn't show him that.. why? I told her she hurted me a lot... Please tell me why she did this? (I've moved on now)

Not sure what it is you are looking for. She's not yours. Never was, is, or has been.

To sleep with your relative's girl? With all of that baby drama & such. What are you thinking?

She's flirty, Yup.

Keep your distance, before you cause any trouble.

Look elsewhere.

Stay away, far away...

She did it because she is trash, and you weren't smart enough to leave her alone, no matter what she did.

Hope you have learned better than to stick your hand in a snake hole and wonder why you got bit. That's what snakes do.

You obviously haven't moved on now else you wouldn't have been bragging about your girlfriend and still trying to make contact with this woman.

It was silly for you both to flirt with each other when she is with a relative of yours and carrying his child. The only thing you can do is to get over it.
Don't text her anymore, because this will just add more fuel to the fire and the last thing you want to do is fall out with your male relative.

What happened happened, and you can't change that now, so you just need to forget it happened and keep your distance. Don't cantact her, and if she contacts you, ignore her.

I told her I was completely done with her and she kept ignoring me.

If you're done with her then why are you still trying to contact her. She's ignoring you because she really is done. You don't seem to be.


I heard she was pregnant by her boyfriend and I congratulated her one night and she didn't respond at all. I had to make her say thank you. I didn't get the message until 1 in the morning.

Why are you texting her? She doesn't have to thank you. You shouldn't have sent the text to begin with. Put your money where your mouth is. You claim to be done. So start acting like it!


I felt we were cool so I told her about my new girlfriend and she ignore the text. I was really hurt from all the pain she put me through so I was bragging about my new girlfriend.. still no response.

She's trying to avoid you because she wants to work on her relationship. Why do you keep harassing her with texts?


The next day her boyfriend was pissed at me because of the picture message I sent her a month ago. I was like why would you just now show him that? I know it was wrong but why all of a sudden show him now?

Why are you sending her pictures? She showed him because she's trying to be honest with him. Yes, she's as much to blame for the flirting as you are, but she's let it go, you haven't. Stop contacting her! Let her be!


(I've moved on now)

Doesn't sound like you have. You keep contacting her. You demand that she write you back when you text. You try to make her jealous by bragging about your girlfriend, but when she doesn't respond, you get mad. You're far from over it. You haven't moved on, and you can't accept that she has.