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nihaolzw
Aug 14, 2011, 10:49 PM
I don't kown how to talk to people even the pretty lady likes me
When I have a caversation I always feel weird ,shy and I have nothing
To say just answer and I really hope this caversation end quikly
When I was a teenager idont have that issue at all I don't kown why
Sorry about my grammar
Really appreciate

Wondergirl
Aug 14, 2011, 10:57 PM
Smile, look at the other person's eyes (but don't stare), and listen carefully so you can ask questions.

Practice with a brother or sister or friend.

nihaolzw
Aug 14, 2011, 11:39 PM
No I can't the only thing I say is "morning"
Ican't get 9Emotional communication) I Google for this

I wish
Aug 15, 2011, 08:32 AM
How old are you now? Are you in school? Working?

Are there particular people that you would like to talk to but too shy for?

Do you have any close friends that you talk a lot with?

nihaolzw
Aug 19, 2011, 05:10 AM
23 now I'm working now. I don't get the fuuny part about work
For me life is torture maybe some childhood stuff or something I don't know I don't have close friend.for ladis I feel inferior.and too shy to talk. When I little I just feel weird.well every
Child kind be weird I thought it's must be cure when I grow up.but just getting worse.
Look at me kind like paul potts. I just feel so bad

I wish
Aug 19, 2011, 08:01 AM
Why don't you have any close friends? Do you have trouble opening up to another person?

Another way to build confidence is to talk to strangers any way that you find comfortable.

Coming onto this site is a good way to start. Now you have an opportunity to express how you feel and we can do what we can to help you. We might not be able to do everything for you, but at least we can help you get started with baby steps.

What kind of interests or hobbies do you have?

nihaolzw
Aug 19, 2011, 09:10 AM
World of warcraft ,bicycle ,movie

nihaolzw
Aug 19, 2011, 09:13 AM
Now it's 0:13 pm in china

nihaolzw
Aug 19, 2011, 09:14 AM
I like south park it's pretty funny

I wish
Aug 22, 2011, 12:15 PM
I notice that your hobbies do not involved meeting people face to face. Could it be that you're not too interested in having friends and you like to do this by yourself?

There's actually nothing wrong with wanting to do this on your own.

But if you do want to make new friends, you'll need to do things that allow you to meet other people.

nihaolzw
Aug 23, 2011, 03:58 AM
I'm not good with people

nihaolzw
Aug 23, 2011, 04:10 AM
I can't get what people think
And how to talk
Is there some books or movies can help?

I wish
Aug 23, 2011, 01:15 PM
Try this:

The Guide to Self Help Books: Your Online Bookstore for the Best in Self Help, Self Improvement,Self Development, and Personal Growth (http://www.books4selfhelp.com/)

Amazon.ca: Self-Help: Books (http://www.amazon.ca/self-help/s?ie=UTF8&rh=i%3Astripbooks%2Ck%3ASelf-Help&page=1)

Just Google: Self help books.

nihaolzw
Aug 24, 2011, 01:21 AM
Do me a favor
Could you search it for me Chinese version better
I'm not good at English.
Kind be silly we spent a lot of time learn English
And don't do well. We just learn how to pass the test.

nihaolzw
Aug 24, 2011, 01:56 AM
I remember there's a movie one gay said his job is
Talk to strangers and I wonder what position I stand
How I talk.but if treat people like that where's the
Passion of life.

I wish
Aug 24, 2011, 08:12 AM
I'm not sure they have the Chinese versions of these books. I'm not sure how to help you find the Chinese versions. It wouldn't hurt to try to read them in English!

nihaolzw
Aug 25, 2011, 05:46 AM
Well thanks
I go for a try

nihaolzw
Aug 25, 2011, 06:47 AM
How you fell about this
子曰:“学而时习之,不亦悦乎?有 自远方来,不亦乐乎?人不知而不愠 不亦君子乎?”

有子曰:“其为人也孝悌而好犯上者 鲜矣。不好犯上而好作乱者,未之有 。君子务本,本立而道生。孝悌也者 ,其为仁之本与?”

J_9
Aug 25, 2011, 06:49 AM
how you fell about this
子曰:“学而时习之,不亦悦乎?有 自远方来,不亦乐乎?人不知而不愠 不亦君子乎?”

有子曰:“其为人也孝悌而好犯上者 鲜矣。不好犯上而好作乱者,未之有 。君子务本,本立而道生。孝悌也者 ,其为仁之本与?”

Can't read that!

nihaolzw
Aug 25, 2011, 06:52 AM
Sorry
http://i.6.cn/tu.6.cn/69/51/4c/340880b214c878679efcda2cae7e6f0d.nail.jpg

nihaolzw
Aug 25, 2011, 06:59 AM
Can you recommend to me some video

I wish
Aug 25, 2011, 12:57 PM
Which country are you from? Can you enroll into some public speaking courses?

nihaolzw
Aug 30, 2011, 03:58 PM
I find a place in HongKong. Thank you I wish