UbroA
Aug 8, 2011, 08:54 AM
I have been dating my girl for over 3 years now, in that time I have put on about 30 lbs and my appearance has begun to get to a point of action. I have been lifting and feeling much better about myself but she tells me that I'm missing the spark and my confidence around her. My personality has not changed around anyone but her and her family, mainly because when I would do crazy spontaneous things or crack little jokes I would get dirty looks and "do you ever use your head" lines. The answer is no because I'm living in the moment and just being happy, but I have found myself toing my personality down because of the constant looks and "tanked" attempts at making her laugh. She tells me I'm no longer myself because I am not the person she "fell in love with". I feel like I am caught in a catch 22 here and need some advice...
(yes I have said everything here to her and have really seen minimal change so far... about 2 weeks)
(yes I have said everything here to her and have really seen minimal change so far... about 2 weeks)