My guy doesn't kiss me much. When I asked him why he said he just likes to kiss when the moment strikes but it doesn't strike often. We have sex but don't have sex much anymore.. we kissed a lot at the beginning of our relationship.. it's all we did really. Not so much any more.. I try to kiss him sometimes he kisses me other times he teases me with his lips and then no kisses. We are serious very much in fact we plan to get married soon. I love him.. I just need kisses

My question is. Is it normal? Is it him or me? Can I get him to kiss me more? And how?

It is not a matter of normal or not.
If kisses are important to you and he knows it and loves you, I don't know why he can't manage one once a day.
On the other hand if they are not important to him and you know he loves you, should it be that big a deal?
You need to ask yourself if the relationship is worth it. Marriage is not going to change him into a kisser, he either is one or he's not. The question is, can you live with that?

Thanks that helps.