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lollylost
Aug 5, 2011, 03:24 PM
I have been with my partner for 10 years we are due to get married in October, which MY parents have spent 17 grand on the wedding. But for the last 4 to 5 month I think I have fallen out of love with him. I don't like him as a person no more. I sent myself on holiday for 2 weeks to see if I missed him and I didn't. Not one bit. The problem is he seems oblivious to any of this, and even though I don't love him no more, I still care about him and don't want to hurt him. I need help in what to do?

amicon
Aug 5, 2011, 11:10 PM
If you are 100% sure that you are no longer in love with him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, you must call the wedding off.

Tough,yes,but how wrong it would be to marry someone you have fallen out of love with!

talaniman
Aug 6, 2011, 01:33 PM
I think you should start being honest with him NOW, and your parents too. The longer you wait, the worse it will be for everyone.

vanheart
Aug 7, 2011, 02:30 AM
Call it off.

Doesn't sound like this a new thing.

Be honest to yourself.