I have this ex boyfriend who I broke up with almost 3 months ago. He just wasn't the same person anymore and I guess I got bored. We were only together for 9 months. He got really crazy at times when he got mad and I just didn't like it. He tells me he is over me and he calls me mean names and says stuff to try and hurt me. Like he tries to tell me that even if he was paid 1,000 dollars he'd never get back with me. The funny thing is I haven't asked for him back and he just tells me these things. I don't in anyway to try make contact with him. It seems he always calls me at the same time every week almost since we broke up. He calls me towards the end of the week. I think he is drunk when he calls but I am not sure. When I was on vacation he called me twice I only answered one of those phone calls. Yesterday night he called me 3 times and I didn't answer any of them. I just don't understand why he feels the need to call me and say rude things if he is over me? Like why does he care enough to call? I also have him blocked on Facebook, but I think he may see when my friends post things with me. Like my friend posted a picture of me and this kid together. He called that kid and tried talking crap to him the night before he called me.

He's not really over it but the real reason is because he is unstable and his behavior indicates that he's an emotionally abusive control freak. Time to block him from everything, and how old are you? It may be time to get adults, or more experienced adults involved if he keeps harassing you.

Tell him to leave you alone, and tell your friends and family you want nothing to do with him, then you must have nothing to do with him, and STICK TO IT!!

Block his number from your phone. Don't just block him from fb, delete him. If he does get through, as soon as you know it's him, hang up.

If he keeps harassing you then get a restraining order.