My daughter is a drug addit... she is 21 and has 2 kids and she is married.. and maybe pregnant again... I have tried to get her help ,but there is no help where I live.. I am willing to keep my grandkids *** help.. her husband is abusing to her .but she is so depended on the drugs she will not let me help her or try and get her help.. I have tried everything I can,, my grandkids cannot go to social services,, it would destroy them... *** help

You have two choice - do nothing and leave your Grandchildren at risk OR do something - and that includes notifying Child Protective Services and/or the Police and "saving" the children.

Sometimes what is best for children who cannot protect themselves is no in the best interest of adults, but has to be done.

Why would the Grandchildren "go" t Social Services when you are available and willing to take them in?

If they would go to Social Services would it be worse for them than living where they are?

I think you have to step up to the plate here and protect the Grandchildren who cannot protect themselves. It's going to take whatever it takes and cost whatever it costs.