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sky2112
Jul 29, 2011, 09:18 AM
According to the wheel I am 6 weeks and 6 days today I went to the doctor a week ago on the 22 they did an ultra sound which said I was 5 to 5 1/2 weeks they could only see a sac then I had some pain and bleeding on Monday went to the er and they did blood work and said I was six to seven weeks how far along am I?? We had sex on the 10th 13th 25th 28 th and my lmp started June 11 through June 14th the wheel said I conceived arounf the 25th help??

adviceishere
Jul 29, 2011, 09:33 AM
I'm assuming this question and your last question are about the same person, I'm unsure as to why you're asking twice, the answers will be the same

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/when-conceived-589219.html

smoothy
Jul 29, 2011, 10:12 AM
I'll second that... you already asked and its been answered.
She slept with TWO guys... she's going to have to wait until she can have a DNA test done to figure out WHICH guy gets to be the father.

A doctors guess only goes so far. DNA is far more accurate.

sky2112
Jul 29, 2011, 10:57 AM
Yea well we don't even care about dna its her first child she don't even know exactly how far along she is trying to figure it out she asked for help not smart remarks.

Curlyben
Jul 29, 2011, 11:00 AM
Now is this about YOU or your DAUGHTER as things appear to be very confused.

adviceishere
Jul 29, 2011, 11:08 AM
Like I said, you asked the same question, you're going to get the same answers, that's not a smart remark.

smoothy
Jul 29, 2011, 11:26 AM
yea well we dnt even care about dna its her first child she dont even know exactly how far along she is trying to figure it out she asked for help not smart remarks.

What was "smart" about that... I was repeating your own statements in your previous thread you apparently weren't happy with the answers to. She is trying to figure our who's it was from the conception date... which can not be pinpointed only ball parked. Why else would an exact conception date even matter?

She's roughly as far along as the doctor said she was... figure back 9 months from the due date, and allow roughly a week more or less for an approximate conception date. It's a guess, its not an exact science.

Synnen
Jul 29, 2011, 11:44 AM
You are NOT going to figure out the conception date unless she was SPECIFICALLY tracking her ovulation.

Period.

I WAS tracking my ovulation, and still don't know whether my conception date was one of 3 dates.

Your daughter is NEVER going to know her exact conception date. I think the only way to ever figure that out is to have sex only once a month, because then that date is the only possible date of conception.

Your daughter needs to just confess to both guys already and realize that she brought this situation upon herself.

THEN you BOTH need to concentrate on what is best for the baby. I truly think your daughter is not ready for the responsibility of a child, since she wasn't ready for the responsibility of sex (by having multiple partners).

Lutheran Social Services and Catholic Social Services have terrific adoption services. I suggest you start there.

sky2112
Jul 29, 2011, 02:20 PM
Conception aside not even worried about that we would just like to know how far along she is since she has been told different things... and the person who suggested adoption fyi she is not the first and will not be the last to sleep with more than one person... it has been a long time since I had children and I'm trying to help her and things are different so I myself am not sure about the hormone levels and things either just trying to understand to help her understand.

smoothy
Jul 29, 2011, 05:14 PM
Have you been reading the answers on both these threads?. NOBODY can pinpoint the conception date even within a week accurately. Take the due date and subtract 9 months... figure out from there, simple math... how long has it been from THAT date. A rough ballpark is as close as you are going to get.

I've said this several times already and others have said roughly the same thing. You can ask it a thousand times... its still not going to change the answer.

You CAN'T know how far along you are exactly without knowing the exact date of conception... close is as good as its going to get. Her OB-GYN gave you/her an answer... we gave you an answer, likely the very same one.

Unless she had IN VITRO fertilization... (she didn't) only god can give you an exact date. No mortal can.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 29, 2011, 05:32 PM
Estimated date of birth or how many weeks she is, is just that, a educated date, there is no way to be 100 percent sure, at best there is a week or two "give or take" on exact dates,

So as she get closer to due dates, they will watch for other signs of time to give birth, but event then it is still a guess, a educated one, but a guess.

So again, there is no way at all, no one anywhere can tell you an exact for sure answer. You doctor made a educated guess, you with the wheel made a educated guess.

Both are right, according to the data used. The actual date of birth will be that a educated guess.

sky2112
Jul 29, 2011, 05:52 PM
Thank you