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babygirl11
Jul 23, 2011, 05:46 PM
Well this is my story me and my ex broke up 2 weeks and 2 days ago. We've been together 2 and half yrs this is the 6th time he left.everytime I need time.well this time he says he wants us to take time and work it out righ this time.usualy he does the nc with me or just avoids me for the 1st week or so.well we've been texting everyday talked on the phone a few times and seen each other total of 6 times sense the break up.some were to see his granny in hosptial.I tired starting the nc on his birthday tues and when he didn't hear from me he flipped out.I think he has some emotional issues.well because he had a rough childhood and wasn't really tought right don't think he's grew up completely yet.he still tells me he loves me misses me wants to work us out.ii didn't text him all day then he texted.im really confused I want him home we have 2 kids together.but I want him here for good this time.we really only broke up because we were arguing too much.I want to fix myself to keep it good find away notargue really only reason we ever break up.he has some different personalties and very influnced person.I don't understand him sometimes when he's here he's a great dad and sweet tom me he has his moments but I know he tries but I push him to try harder I'm try to fix what I did but not sure what to do because if I do nc he will just get angry if I beg him might push him away.I just need some advice believe in my heart he's the one and he is so fun to be around and I love him so much we have so much in common I compare everybody to him because its like nobody can be him I love everything about him he has my heart never felt this way I feel its worth fighting for and he's my best friend also.

amicon
Jul 24, 2011, 05:48 AM
As you have children together I think you should try couple's therapy.

I'd suggest that to him if I were you.