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lily1470
Jul 23, 2011, 01:56 PM
This guy named Ryan told he loves me a year ago, and then he ask me out a week ago, but now he not texting back so what should I do about it, break up, or stay together?

jenniepepsi
Jul 23, 2011, 04:41 PM
Let me get this straight. He told you he loved you a year ago, but you have only been dating a week now.

I'm very confused here, please give some more information

lily1470
Jul 25, 2011, 05:35 AM
And thanks for help sorry


What I was trying to say was that he had a crush on me for a year but he just ask me out a week and 2 days ago

jenniepepsi
Jul 25, 2011, 09:05 AM
Ahh makes much more sense.
How old are both of you?

At this point I would say just take a deep breath, relax and wait for him to contact you. Sometimes it takes guys a while, and we will get anxious, but that's part of life lol. Good luck :)

Cat1864
Jul 25, 2011, 09:20 AM
Lily, do you mind if I ask how old both of you are? Also, where is 'here'?

Could there be a reason such as family, friends, work, school, broken phone, etc. which could be preventing him from contacting you?

When he asked you out a week ago, what did he say?
What were both of you expecting?
Did you agree that you are in a relationship or were you just supposed to go out on a date?

lily1470
Jul 26, 2011, 10:13 AM
He 13 and I'm 13 too I said yes because I was being nice and I did not want his heart to be broken even though I'm to young to date I did not want to be mean

jenniepepsi
Jul 26, 2011, 10:55 AM
Ahh easy fix then. To break up with him without hurting his feelings, I would just say 'im sorry my parents said I cannot date yet'

Cat1864
Jul 26, 2011, 11:13 AM
Are your parents okay with you dating? If not, then you have a parent given reason for 'breaking up.'

I am not even certain if there is anything to 'break up'.

If you don't want to 'date' him, don't worry about his not contacting you. Go about your own life.

If you do want to 'date' him and your parents are okay with it, then give him the benefit of the doubt and time to contact you. It could be that he got himself grounded, lost his phone, his parents don't approve of him dating, or a few dozen other reasons he hasn't contacted you.

lily1470
Aug 17, 2011, 10:31 PM
Ok thanks guys I'll try to break up with him. My mom is okay with it, she said just don't kiss him, or do any thing beside holding hands. Like its OK to hold hands, but don't kiss they said. I guess I won't. I'll just break up with him. Thanks, I need to do school work any ways.


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