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Jul 21, 2011, 04:06 PM
I feel that my husband is not interested on me because he never use to come near me or hug me he just give a kiss and goes fast for job may flying kiss. After my pregnancy he is like that. When ever I ask why he says that let 90 days get over because you are had done Cesarean, after 90 days when I asked he is saying let 6 months get over then only your body stitch will heal. When I asked now he is saying let your LMP starts or otherwise it will be risk, and I will get another baby he is saying.
Why he can't use condoms he is saying that it will not give satisfaction. He is saying that because of job he is mad. Some times he says that no problem of job nothing to do. He is never spending time by talking to me. He is to buy things and all what I like. He use to take me out some times. Before he takes me along with him every where and always, but now when he drinks I use to scold him once he slapped me on face. Before it was OK he drinks in limit but now he is not like that.
His mother had told me that not to allow to drink that's why I use to tell him now on words even I hate he drinking. He told sorry next morning to me and promised me that he will not drink promise. Like that so any times he had gave me promises but he has not done it, he broke his promise so that now I don't believe him in any cases. Then he told occasionally he will drink. Why he is not interested on me after pregnancy. Its because always I am scolding him every time he will do what I doesn't like.
Before we use to watch films together but now when he start to watch with out calling me. Why that so from this all what I want to understand. What I will do? If I say it to my family they says its my mistake. They think I am so stubborn and straight forward girl so I don't have feelings they think. Please help me out.
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Why he can't use condoms he is saying that it will not give satisfaction. He is saying that because of job he is mad. Some times he says that no problem of job nothing to do. He is never spending time by talking to me. He is to buy things and all what I like. He use to take me out some times. Before he takes me along with him every where and always, but now when he drinks I use to scold him once he slapped me on face. Before it was OK he drinks in limit but now he is not like that.
His mother had told me that not to allow to drink that's why I use to tell him now on words even I hate he drinking. He told sorry next morning to me and promised me that he will not drink promise. Like that so any times he had gave me promises but he has not done it, he broke his promise so that now I don't believe him in any cases. Then he told occasionally he will drink. Why he is not interested on me after pregnancy. Its because always I am scolding him every time he will do what I doesn't like.
Before we use to watch films together but now when he start to watch with out calling me. Why that so from this all what I want to understand. What I will do? If I say it to my family they says its my mistake. They think I am so stubborn and straight forward girl so I don't have feelings they think. Please help me out.
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