I had sex a lot 2 weeks ago.I felt cramps last week and thought I was going to see my period, but I saw this disgusting black blood with cloths and after that I felt I would see real blood because my period has never been regular and I react to birth control so I use condoms or no condoms at all because Im married. I have read several blogs and they talk about pregnancies or menopause, I am just 20 and don't think I am close to menopause, please help. Also saw stuffs about misplaced tampons, I'm really freaked out because I take out all my tampons.please help me people.

Thank you

Dana