Well you see, I like 2 boys. Please don't say I'm a slut or anything please I just like both. And I am not cheating cause they aren't my bf's. So I would just say there is boy A and boy B.

Boy A: he is very sweet and nice to me, and everyone. He sometimes started at me but I don't know if that means anything. He is good looking but I don't care about that. We aren't really friends though. But I would love to be. Also what I like about him is he has a geeky side!! Kind of like me. I am not that populaur out of 100 percent populaur I'm like 65 percent. And he's like 85 percent. I really like him. (BTW he doesn't have a gf) Oh and in the last day of school we got voted cutesy couple and WE ARE NOT A COUPLE!!

Boy B: He has a girlfriend but I know he doesn't like her and uses her for popularity. This boy is not as cute, but has a dark side. He may be nice to people, but not nice to me or my friends. Unless I am not with my friends... Then he would be nice to me. He yesterday gave me a kiss in the mouth in the park!! I was stunned because he has a girlfriend. So I was like, you know you have a girlfriend, and he said thAt I don't care about, and ran to his car and left. Now Im scared that he would kiss some other girl if we date!! But he is so mean to some people. He Is like 90 percent populaur.

Just to let you know you am 17

One thing I learned early on is to step back if you can't decide between two people and find someone who embodies the best traits of both people.

B does not sound like someone who is ready to be in a real relationship. At best, he is playing games and his immaturity is showing if he thinks treating people badly or dating them for popularity is a good way to behave. I'd leave him and his 'bad boy' charm to the girlfriend he already has. Let her decide how much she is willing to put up with before she dumps him. That may be what it takes for him mature.

A sounds like someone you might get to know better as a friend. Forget about popularity scores. Friends shouldn't be based on what other people think but on what you have in common. Don't be afraid to show your geeky side. Be friendly and make a new friend. Remember that popularity does not mean he isn't shy about making friends, too. Some of the most popular people become that way by accident. Getting to know him better may help you figure out if he is a better friend than boyfriend material.

Whatever you decide to do about these two, don't let your confused feelings for them blind you to a totally different person who might be wishing you would notice him. That person could be a better match than either A or B. Don't forget that C-Z are out there too.

Hi Cat1864, um actually boy A asked me out, he's my boyfriend!!

Been a busy day, hasn't it?

Good luck.

That was quick!

Take care.

Thank u guys!!