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boatbuilder
Jul 14, 2011, 11:41 AM
Had a great first date with a girl I met online. Second date was OK but didn't go as well as the first one. Am I still in the game for more dates and future relationship.
JudyKayTee
Jul 14, 2011, 11:48 AM
We don't know. She does. Ask her out and see what she says.
"Didn't go as well .." could mean anything.
What happened to this two date relationship - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/asking-out-second-date-579119.html
boatbuilder
Jul 14, 2011, 11:54 AM
Had a great first date with a girl I met online. Second date was OK but didn't go as well as the first one. Am I still in the game for more dates and future relationship?
First date: Was great, had a lot in common, everything went right and ended the date with a great kiss.
Texted a few times between the dates.
Second date: Went to a movie for the second date. The A/C was out at the theatre, so it was really hot. I had my arm around her or was holding her hand for almost the whole movie. As we walked out of the movie I asked her once she get back form her vacation next week if she wanted to go on another date but a day date in the city. She said yes and it sounded great to me. As I dropped her off we kissed again but it was somewhat weird since I was buckled in still as she was getting out of the car. It felt a little awkward for me and betting for her too. When I get home I sent her a text that in short said I really enjoyed the date, I like spending time with her, I look forward to taking her out again and I told her I was sorry if the kiss was awkward, I was was waiting for the right moment in the night to make a move and it didn't work out the way I thought it was going to.
Any advice? And am I still in the game?
I wish
Jul 14, 2011, 01:03 PM
If you get a third date, you'll know that you're still in the game.
Seems like you're doing well so far, don't need to over-react about every little detail.
Wait for her to come back from vacation then send her another message asking her to go out on another date. If she responds, you know you're still in the game.
JudyKayTee
Jul 14, 2011, 01:33 PM
How old are the two of you? You seem very anxious to me - I would be concerned about someone who texted/called to explain why the kiss wasn't all it should be.
She either sees you again or she doesn't - and then you'll know.