So here's my situation in a nutshell... I have been trying to get back with my ex girlfriend for a while now we still talk she tells me she needs her space and I am giving it to her we still go to weddings and other stuff together... she tells me that she will give it another chance just hasn't said when exactly she knows we need to give it another chance to see if we are meant to be together.. I have tried moving on meeting other women tried dating sites all that stuff and I haven't yet found anyone and yes I have been open minded when talking to other women... what is the best approach I read articles all the time on what to do when trying to get your ex girlfriend back and gotten a bunch of different advice such as leave her be go date other women give her space etc... any input would help thanks

Quote by I wish, from 2009,
She already knows that you want to get back together. If she wanted to give the relationship a second chance, she will contact you.

I think it's better that you start moving on. If she ever comes back to you, then great! If she doesn't, then at least you will be in a better position to move on with your life.

Sticking with no contact is a good idea. Because every time to talk to her, you will analyse all the little signs, which is unhealthy.

Even if this is, or isn't the same girl, the advice won't change at all. But you already know that.

You also know about reading the stickies (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/).

How about focusing on yourself for the meantime? Why are you trying to get other people involved in your unfinished buisiness?

Why did you break up in the first place?

In a nutshell, take time to breathe a bit before you do anything relating to relationships...

Stop worrying about getting her back.

Put that out of your head, & stop hanging out.

Put your energies to everything else BUT that.

Sounds like she doesn't want what you want. But, likes having you around, keeping you hanging on.
False promises.

That kind of relationship is for suckers.

Move on.

Move on.