My daughter an I share the same home, she is very rude to me, to the point I am thinking of moving out.
I pay the mortgage,I put her son on the bus every morning,even when she is there in bed.I help her with dishes
And laundry,way more then my share.I can`t stand the thought of leaving my grandson,it breaks my heart,but she treats me bad verbally... don`t know what to do!

If you pay the mortgage, what does she contribute to the household monetarily?

The rudeness I agree is unacceptable. I guess she is to the point of taking you for granted and will regret it one of these days. Of course, my mantra is 'tough love' no matter how old the children are.

Why should you have to move out? If you move out are you still going to pay the mortgage so she can live rent free? Or why not do it this way, say you will move out but would accept a rent from her to stay in the house. I bet she would balk at that, but I don't see her changing her attitude for it.

I would have to say, giving it careful consideration, you should ask her to move out.

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