There is this guy I work with. We got to know each other quite well at work. We spend a lot of time talking about many things that we know each other quite well. Then one day during conversation, I said about going to a festival and ''we should go''. He didn't respond, and I said again''we should go''.. He said we should.. & then near to the day we were going out, he didn't get in touch with me the night before so I had to call work, and get his number, and when I contacted him he responded. We decided to meet at one station, and go to our destination together. I waited for him at the station to find out he's already at our destination.

Anyway we met up, and had a great time spending whole day together. Then when leaving gave each other a peck and said our goodbye's. Heard nothing from him for 3 days till I texted him making some excuse, then nothing for a day. Today we met at work and he was cold, and different to me in front of others. That may be because it was a meeting.

After the meeting when we were leaving, he asked me what I was going to do, and my working days for next 3 days, and also as he won't be on site, and I won't see him for 2 days. Then he suggested he's going to the pub, and I responded saying I might go to the pub for few drinks, and he looked like he was going to ask me to go with him, but he didn't and we went our different ways.

I texted him when I got home to ask about our presentation next week, and he hasn't replied. What do I do?


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He might be a little nervous. Or he's just not that in to you. Try texting him and asking him if he likes you are not because you don't need to give all hopes up just asking a question. Or next time you see each other ask him. And nothing ends up working you don't need him if he's like that. There's a lot more people that I'm sure would like to be with you.how much do you actually like him?

Guess he is not yet comfortable. Or I would say, that is not the way he would usually behave with his close friends. That is OK, if he wants to ask you out, he should gather the courage and ask you out, or at least say what's on his mind. And you don't have to keep these in mind too, you can always say in a friendly way. Ex. "Oh, I thought you were asking me to join for the pub". Looks like he likes you..

Everything you said shows that he is disinterested. You should not invest too much into it. He just wants to be an acquaintance for you. Find someone who who don't have to ask questions about like this.

I think you back off, and quit chasing him. No more texting or calling as an excuse to contact him. For whatever reason he has not come forward, his actions say he don't chase him at all.

If he is interested, shouldn't he show it, and maybe he doesn't like dating where he works. Whatever, YOU need to slowdown, way down. Build on the friendship, and keep it casual, FORGET romance at work, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have a social life outside of work, with friends you enjoy.

Never know what goes on in a co workers life, but not good that you should be forcing contact with him. Not good at all.