I have a crush on a boy at my school and now my friend is starting to flirt with him through Facebook and I have recently discovered that he just wants to be friends and likes my friend, she says they are just mates but I don't believe it and she is still flirting back. I think they might end up going out. What should I do, some advice would be great!

Hey, Ive been there and done that! Trust me! If your friend is flirting with the guy you liked and you have seen it with your own eyes then she probably will end up going out with him :/ If your friend knew that you liked this guy, in my opinion I don't think she should have went anywhere near him to start of with but this happens and there's nothing you can do. If the guy wants to be friend, then be friends with him, get really close with him, act like your one of the guys and joke about, pretend you don't fancy him anymore and you've got over it. He will see that your so much better than what he thought the first time! :)

I really hope I helped you!! Xxx

I have a crush on a boy at my school and now my friend is starting to flirt with him through Facebook and I have recently discovered that he just wants to be friends and likes my friend,

So, he's told you that you're a friend, he has no feelings for you, doesn't want to date you, he likes your friend.


she says they are just mates but I don't believe it and she is still flirting back.

I flirt with my friends. Doesn't mean anything. Does she know he has a crush on her? Does she know you have a crush on him?


I think they might end up going out. What should I do, some advice would be great!

You sound like a teen. If they do end up going out, it won't last. Teen romances never do.

What should you do? Find someone that feels about you the way you feel about them. He's told you he's not interested. You may be crushing on him, but he's crushing on your friend. So write him off, and find someone else.