Hi I'm 40yrs old end of July!! I already ave 3kids which I had young 19yrs when had my 1st son 20yrs when had my daughter & 24yrs when had my 2nd son my eldest is now 20 youngest is 15yrs now! I ave been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend I've been with 4 nearly a yr I miscarried 18months ago from a previous boyfriend! The thing is I've been having periods since I was 13yrs old & ave neva suffered frotender breast!! I am getting normal periods every month which lately are always 2days early except 3months ago I was 4-5days late! Thing is I've done numerous urine pregnancy test at the treatment room& they all come back negative I always ave very sensitive tender breast for 2-3 weeks but neva when on my period I am always tired get a lot of backache I also sometimes feel sick, I also occasionally feel movemens in my abdomen> its been 15yrs since being pregnant for my youngest son & been told by some people pregnant diff in diff people at diff ages!! I ave also heard of someone that had all their regular periods & had given birth after not even knowing they were actually pregnant can this be the case for me too maybe?

I would say if the pregnancy tests come back negative - hospital pregnancy tests - that you are not pregnant. It could be a variety of things including pre-menopause.

If you are having unprotected sex, why would you be surprised to find out you are pregnant?