Two years ago I fell in love for the first time. We met in the summer and we immediately hit it off. Our relationship was great! But as 9 months had passed I began to notice more and more often that he had an anger problem he never hit me but it did concern me. We broke up not long after and it ended on horrible terms. After that we each would talk a little to one another but nothing real serious. We also saw other people and as time has gone by our relationships with our others has grown more in depth. For past months he has been trying to reach me telling me that he still has very strong feelings for me. That he wants only me, but then he tells me that he's in over his head with the relationship that he's in. I ignore his messages because I have heard this before but not about his relationship. I try not to think about him. I myself am happily envolved with someone who I wouldn't trade for anyone, but I constantly find myself thinking about the other. I don't know why! It's like the more he try's to talk to me the more I keep wondering what if?

I myself am happily envolved with someone who I wouldn't trade for anyone, but I constantly find myself thinking about the other. I don't know why! It's like the more he try's to talk to me the more I keep wondering what if?

And confusion reigns ! The fact remains, you are both in other relationships, but he is a fence sitter unwilling to commit to either one of you. What does that tell you ?
To me it says BEWARE. If you value your sanity and well-being I would run and run and run away from the situation you are considering. My radar says it can only lead to mega heartache, January.

Stay tuned for more input from our relationship experts, I am not one of them but just the same, my opinion above reflects how I feel about men who just can't get it together and jump off the fence, and there appears to be a lot of them nowadays, wanting their cake and eating it to.

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