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annabear
Jun 29, 2011, 12:01 AM
I'm just wondering. Because I don't see what it is. *** no mean comments! I'm just young and curious on what girls find attractive in males. Thanks ^_^

amicon
Jun 29, 2011, 03:33 AM
Kindness,a great sense of humour and being secure in themselves.

dessybe
Jun 29, 2011, 07:06 AM
Kindness, that's what women find attractive in men, if you are kind and attentive your onto a winner.

annabear
Jun 29, 2011, 08:14 AM
Yeah that's a nice thing to have but I'm thinking about something unique that a man can bring but a woman can't. If that makes sense.

Wondergirl
Jun 29, 2011, 08:18 AM
His deep, masculine TV-announcer voice. How he has to fix everything that I just want to vent about. The way he gets drowsy while I ramble.

southamerica
Jun 29, 2011, 08:37 AM
I can't say much about men vs. women. I'm simply attracted to men and not women.

What I can say is I know what sets my boyfriend apart from the other men I've dated.

We share dreams, principles, and faith. He supports me, protects me, and cares about me. He has a backbone and can defend himself. He knows how to respond to some of my, shall I say, "feminine" ways (passive aggressiveness, cattiness, picking fights, etc) without escalating the situation.

He loves me very dearly and I have never once had to question it. I love him too and I haven't doubted that for a second.

He as a person (not a male or female) matches me so well and turns my question marks into periods.

Oh, and I like the way men smell :)

CFZD
Jun 29, 2011, 02:17 PM
Th ways he sees things on a higher level, focus on big pictures and rationality.

slugbug99
Jul 2, 2011, 05:39 PM
A sense of humour, like to go out and have fun

CFZD
Jul 4, 2011, 07:02 AM
To add, driving skill, I have to admit that I prefer not to drive in complicated traffic situation. I like a man who can drive, drive fast but not getting a ticket. LOL